That's something my mother told me when I was very young. In fact she told me to never do it, however as we know in this day and age many times truths are hidden and speculation comes natural sometimes.
Now I'm part of Generation X so things where quite different back in the days. Prior to the late 90's the term "downlow" was foreign to us and other girls I grew up with. We did not sit around speculating whether each man in the spotlight was gay or on the "downlow". That is new to this era.
We didn't question whether Ralph Tresvant was gay or not and Ralph Tresvant is best known for his song "Sensitivity" as a solo artist.
A song that would make every young Black girl in this era speculate whether he was gay or not.
|Ralph Tresvant - Sensitivity .mp3|
|Found at bee mp3 search engine|