Is it Roy Williams turn to be embarrassed?
For all those unaware, Roy Williams was engaged to Kelly Rowland from Destiny Child. Here’s what he did right before they where to get married:
“I sat her down on the bed and said, Kelly, we don’t know each other well enough to get married. At the time, she was cool with it, but I ended up catching a lot of heat for doing the grown-up thing.”
Lol, I'm mean sometimes, but I’ll get into how pitiful Kelly Rowland is to me. She’s one of those brown skin/dark skin girls I always hated to be around because of their low self esteem. No matter how much they try to hide it. The embarrassing part of the engagement cancellation was the fact that Kelly posed in a wedding dress on the cover of Modern Bride’s April/May 2005 edition. Here’s what she had to say about the incident.
“I was so embarrassed. I didn’t even want to go out of the house and I really didn’t want to put my family in the position of having to answer questions about the wedding.”
Something tells me she was like many women who just want to get married.
In any case let’s get back to Roy Williams. Roy Williams went on to date Miss Texas pageant winner Brooke Daniels. He showered her with gifts and sent a recorded marriage proposal to her with a $75,000 ring. She declined but kept the ring.
Not only did she keep the ring, but her father knew about it and approved of her keeping the ring. I do too. I would say “this dumb Nig*ga tried to buy my daughter, she’s worth $75,000”.
See the bottom-line or the ENERGY of the situation is, when you do dumb things, or things that make you seem like a push over or soft, people will consciously or subconsciously take advantage of you.
In this case both Brooke Daniels and her father knew subconsciously Roy Williams was trying to buy what he was brainwashed to think he should have. So knowing and feeling this ENERGY takes away the genuine nature of his proposition and it becomes a notion, of you got what you paid for. You tried to buy me. Here’s what he sent along with the recorded proposal:
Lol, see how the Universe works. Kelly thought her fiasco was humiliating. Asking someone to marry you through the mail being turned down, and then having to fight for the ring back is even worst. Because not only is he dumb he's a sucker.Williams has declined to comment for the story, but in an affidavit signed by Williams, he claims he sent $5,000 for school and dental bills, a baseball for Daniels' brother and — as a surprise — a recorded marriage proposal with the ring through the mail just before Valentine's Day to Daniels. However, when Daniels declined the proposal, she did not return the ring.
Before the whole world he was rejected by the type of woman society says would not accept him nor would want to truly be with him. Even after spending $75,000 for a ring and paying for other expenses. See, he should try a lower scale White woman like a Kendra Wilkinson, I think he would have better luck.
There are White woman who have major options in their race why would they take on a harder life unless the Black man is "superman" with a lot of cash. Most athletes can buy a White woman who has the idealistic features society has told him is ideal, but she would have to be from a lower scale family and background to sign her life over to a difficult path. A path that takes her away from life as she has always known it and lived it.
I'll write more later, there are many, many layers and ENERGIES to these issues.